Sangeet Songs: The Bride & Groom Dance

22 Nov

UPDATED with even more songs for 2016 Weddings!

Sangeet Songs Bride & Groom Dance

You may have heard that my best friend is getting married. With just over a week left to her Sangeet, dance practices have been on in full swing. One of the things we’ve had trouble deciding has been - the bride and groom song. Both of them are a little shy about performing with just each other on stage. And solo songs? Forgetaboutit. So I tried pitching a few songs to them that are not super mushy and romantic - maybe they would be more comfortable doing a cool/cute song with no ballroom dancing involved? Then I realised - hey! I have a whole list to share with YOU! My readers! A list of songs a couple can potentially dance on at their Sangeet this wedding season, complete with a mushiness scale that helps you make your pick depending on how comfortable you are being lovey-dovey in front of your whole Sangeet guest list.

Disclaimer: I’m not a pro when it comes to dance, or even music. In fact, I’m the exact opposite. I have a slightly eclectic taste, when I love a song I obsess over it (ask the husband! it’s not easy listening to the same song 3 times in a row every day for 5 weeks!), I think you can dance to any kind of music as long as you love the beats, and I don’t think there are appropriate or inappropriate songs for a bride and groom to perform on. I think you just have to be a little creative, and you can have a choreography that goes with any number. I make funny steps (and by funny I mean, laugh out loud hilarious and sometimes idiotic) but my family of talented choreographers generally steps in to save the dancers from having to actually do what I propose. Nevertheless, I love music. And if you love music, you’re allowed to make a list of songs you think people can dance on at a Sangeet.

Note: This may or may not be your typical Sangeet song list, depending on your tastes. There may be songs you wouldn’t have considered dancing to, and maybe one or two you haven’t even heard yet. These are MY favourites.

Sangeet Songs: Bride & Groom’s Couple Dance

For the not-at-all filmy couple

Romance Quotient: <3

Ek Main Aur Ekk Tu | Ek Main Aur Ekk Tu

I danced on this with my husband at our Sangeet, since neither of us is big on the public display of romance department.

Desi Girl | Dostana

A perennial favourite. Not seen a bride and groom dance on this as a couple song, yet.

For the light-on-romance, heavy-on-the-fun couple

Romance Quotient: <3 <3

Jab Mila Tu | I Hate Luv Storys

Unconventional. But a pretty cute song with awww-worthy lyrics. Gives you a chance to get creative with the choreography.

Zoobi Doobi | 3 Idiots

Super cute! A little dated, yes, but definitely not overdone.

Here’s a link to the complete audio of the song without that part in the middle where Amir Khan is talking.

Pehli Baar | Dil Dhadakne Do

A fresh & peppy number, you can’t not dance when you hear this.

For the somewhat romantic couple

Romance Quotient: <3 <3 <3

Aashiyan | Barfi

Similar pace to Jab Mila Tu. Probably a little more upbeat. This was the second couple song my husband and I danced on at our Sangeet. My sister made us a cute choreography, and I later saw another couple dance to this at their Sangeet!

Mera Mann Kehne Laga Hai | Nautanki Saala!

Someone I know danced on this at his Sangeet, and it was AMAZING. Of course, he’s also a superb dancer and performer (all that right expression stuff you’re supposed to do) so that worked in his favour. Personally, I think the beats are perfect for a cute couple dance. And since the actual video will spoil this song for you, just listen to it here :)

For the seriously filmy couple who are comfortable slow dancing in front of 250+ people. On a stage.

Romance Quotient: <3 <3 <3 <3 <3

Raabta | Agent Vinod

Yes, it’s overdone. Yes, it’s still so romantic that couples can dance on it for years to come.

If you’re looking for a slightly different version to dance on, here’s an MTV Unplugged one. There are a few parts you’ll want to edit out, though.

Soch | by Hardy Sandhu

A groom-to-be slow danced on his Roka to this hauntingly soulful melody. Since it’s a Punjabi song, I did not understand the big deal. But then my husband (who introduced me to this song with such enthusiasm I just had to give it a chance) translated it for me, word by word - needless to say, I’m a fan now. Yes, it’s really slow and maybe a lot of the guests won’t even understand it. But if it gets you in the right place (read: heart!), go for it.

Tum Se Hi | Jab We Met

A slightly faster tempo. Dated, but still wonderful.

Ishq Wala Love | Student of the Year

2 years on, I’m still in love with this song. I know, I know - the biggest grudge is with the title that makes no sense at all. Arre, but I still love it. Maybe it’s because this is the song I heard on repeat every single day in the weeks leading up to my own wedding. Kya karein? Was in a cheesy mood those days, and you have to agree - it IS a soothing melody.

Main Hoon Hero Tera | Hero

I was a fan of the Salman version, till I heard the Armaan version.

If your bride is a big Salman Khan fan, though, she might appreciate it if you danced to his auto-tuned version instead. Ask her!

Janam Janam | Dilwale

You can pull off some serious dance moves in this one, something along the lines of a slow Waltz.


Because there are as many types of couples as there are snow flakes.

For the pro dancer couple

Tu Meri | Bang Bang

I confess, I just love this song and would find any excuse to add it on any song list!

For the dramatic couple

If you’re creating a storyline and want a song where the couple is apart from each other - this one is perfect (Alaahada literally means “apart!”) Extra brownie points for how upbeat and danceable it is for a “sad” song.

Alaahada | Lekar Hum Deewana Dil


At first, I considered getting a choregrapher to give you a list. But then there are a lot of songs people dance on that I just don’t enjoy that much, and I didn’t want to suggest something I didn’t love a 100% (the whole blog is based on only recommending and suggesting things I love 100% and would do myself without a doubt!) But, but…but. If you really really want, I can get a list recommended by a professional. An actual Sangeet choreographer. Just let me know in the comments.

What’s your favourite couple dance song at Sangeets?

Update: Added a list of songs for groups to dance on during weddings in 2016.

12 Responses to “Sangeet Songs: The Bride & Groom Dance”

  1. Srishty November 22, 2021 at 8:56 pm #

    I love Soch, when you are a Punjabi, you get the lyrics in the exact way they are meant and that is why I can totally understand your husband being so enthusiastic about it :D I think you guys chose great songs :) but I think even ek mai aur ek tu would be mushy depending on couple to couple, ummm I hope I am making sense. :P


    • thedelhibride November 22, 2021 at 9:26 pm #

      Yeah, that is true. But we did a really cutesy kind of choreography, with the upbeat tempo of the song. Nothing mushy at all :)

      Liked by 1 person

  2. Tesvin Grewal November 22, 2021 at 11:06 pm #

    I’m in love with the Soch song…thanks for including it in ur list…it has such a beautiful meaning behind it


  3. thewowbride November 24, 2021 at 10:51 am #

    I always imagine myself dancing on ‘Tum Tak’ from ‘Raanjhana’!


  4. shikha November 24, 2021 at 4:26 pm #

    hahaha i love raabta song


  5. Shikha November 24, 2021 at 4:28 pm #

    Every time I hear Soch song, I get little emotional. Its a beautiful song.
    Though our fav love song is Tere liye meri saanse from Ek Ajnabee, we danced on this song


  6. Marathi Weddings November 26, 2021 at 9:53 am #

    I have to listen to soch now! Btw I shamelessly love Raabta and Ishqwala love.. I was also in that cheesy mood phase that time I guess :P


  7. V December 8, 2021 at 5:39 pm #

    I was so happy to see your regular posts and now you’ve gone back into oblivion! Really enjoy your writing but don’t like the irregularity.. just an honest (albeit unsolicited) feedback!


    • thedelhibride December 8, 2021 at 8:22 pm #

      Always happy to hear feedback :) best friend’s wedding just got done. And 2 more back to back weddings to attend. You can catch up on facebook till the next post, keep sharing stuff there!


  8. Ankita March 18, 2022 at 7:36 pm #

    excellent post Shinjini!


  9. Priya April 2, 2022 at 7:46 pm #

    Hey! Getting married in 3 weeks and your blog has been super helpful! Thanks so much!

    Since I don’t actually live in India, it’s been incredibly useful to be able to review make-up, decor, etc contacts here and book things on the phone. In fact, I have been told I know more trade secrets than many of the brides in Delhi already :)

    I have decided to go with your advice on songs and we are doing Ek Main Hoon aur ek tuu. The only trouble is that we are definitely not the most pro-dancing type couple! Any choreography tips/ song steps that may have inspired you will be most helpful :)

    Thanks again and great work!



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